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Never too late

Tina called me, all choked up and sniffling…..she just got news that her brother is going to seek some help at the san diego drug alcohol rehab treatment center. As a good friend, I consoled her and told her gently that this was not such a bad thing because this program will help him better himself for the future.

Being a young bloke, he has a lifetime ahead of him to make right the wrong he has done now, rather than later. She was still upset about it coz she thought that he had stopped all this nonsense when their mother passed away last year – apparently she was wrong. I reckon he took a turn for the worst after Aunt Leen passed away. However, I personally am glad that he has taken this positive step forward and taking charge of his life again. I will have to call Tina one of these days again and remind that this is a good thing.

Men….

What is it with men and car accessories? I don’t know one man who isn’t crazy over car accessories, really. And mind you, doing up your car doesn’t come cheap especially if it’s an uncontrollable craze or desire. I’ve seen some pretty ‘badly’ done up car around and most of them belong to car ethusiats or what I rather call car hoons coz most of the time they are racing down the road at ungodly hours and screeching their tires and those engines…gawd, what do they run on? Tortured souls??

But thank goodness for me, Ted isn’t like that at all and although he does like accessories, his choice is limited to nice CD players and a wide rear-view mirror. :D Aren’t I a lucky wife?

My new exercise regime…

I’m always complaining that I’m fat. I think every woman on this planet thinks that way of themselves. I bet even the supermodels themselves feel like that although they have the best bodies around. To be totally honest, I am actually quite ok with how my body looks like today. My excuse is that I’ve had 2 kids so I am allowed to be a little flabby. lol

I know it’s not a good excuse but every now and then, I’d joke about my jiggly bits aka my spare tire. I bet I can use it as my floatie if ever I fall over into the water. :P Now, bear in mind that I and only I am ever allowed to joke about MY jiggly bits. Its a good thing that Ted has nothing against them. ;) That said, I am always on the lookout for the best way to lose belly fat. ;) It was only recently that I realise Arianna is at that age where she tends to copy everything she sees and hears.

So a couple of days ago, I put on a Latin CD and both of us were shaking our bon-bons like nobody’s business! :D It was really fun and omg, I really sweated a bucket load. It’s not everyday you find a method of losing weight that you enjoy doing. I’ve always loved dancing and going clubbing and all that dancing really brought back some sweet memories. I am certainly looking forward to more dancing with my baby. :) And I can’t wait till KR is old enough too..we’re SO going to be dancing like mad. LOL :D

Just one of those things…

I recently got called back to work on a part time basis for about 5 weeks during the Chrismas holidays at my previous work place. I am flattered, honoured and most of all, my ego is as big or maybe bigger than my bum right now! lol Yes, I feel so appreciated. :D It definitely affirms my self-esteem and that I can be proud to acknowledge that I am of some worth in the workplace. :)

That said, this job is not something that I thought I’d be doing today. I was an admin officer back home but over here, I have been in the accounts department! A department I try best to stay away from but I guess it caught up with me. Thank god for computerised accounting of I’d be a dead duck by now…but being an admin is no easy task. There were many hurdles that I had to overcome but each one made me more experience. The one experience that stood out was when I was asked to order some Anilox roll cleaner.

It was my first week at work so I was still learning the ropes and the suppliers. I didn’t know what it was and assumed that it was some sort of toilet cleaner. I was shy to ask around so I just kept quiet about it. Imagine my shock when I found out what it really was….I’m glad I kept my mouth shut or it would have been super humiliating!!! :P

O dear….

I think I’ve been bitten by the Christmas present bug!! :P Yea, Christmas is just around the corner and I am super duper lousy at buying presents for people. *sigh* I have to admit that I hardly spend a lot of time thinking of what to get someone and then, before I know it, it’s too late or I’m running out of time…OR more often than not, not enough money!!! *slaps forehead* Shopping during Christmas can be devastating to the wallet, ok?

Anyways, Ted’s been talking about bell tv. Lord knows what that is and I’m a little afraid to ask him about it because although I know not much about it, I would like to see if I can afford to get him one. And if I do ask him about it, I’m afraid that he may *think* that I will be getting him one. :/ So what to do???

I think lawyers have it good

Although most people don’t think much of lawyers, I think they have one of the best money making professions around!! I don’t know how things are done in Malaysia but here, they charge by the hour and gosh, they really charge for EVERYTHING!!

Poor friend of mine was telling me how she would get invoices every now and then. Each phone call or conversation with her lawyers cost down to the last minute. Photocopy something and they charge you an arm and a leg. I know that at the end of the day, if you win, then that’s all that matters. I wonder if all lawyers are like this…you know, perhaps else where things are different…say New York accident lawyers perhaps?

Who knows eh? I just hope she resolves this soon or she is going to be in some serious financial troubles!

Eat your chocolate!

How often have you said this to your child? I think most modern parents would never even have thought to say it let alone find out that some crazy parents actually do say it. We do. :D

Like I’ve mentioned a million times before, meal times can and most of the time, be a very difficult time and perhaps the person most stressed out is me. I know that Arianna won’t starve to death overnight if she doesnt eat well for one meal but I could swear blind that she could well come up with the best weight loss supplement one day! *lol* :P She’s quite happy with having just pita or naan bread with butter and jam. Sometimes just fruits like strawberries and banana would put a smile on her face.

She’s not really a meat person just yet and apparently this is taking after her father who wasn’t one when he was growing up either so I’m taking that as a sort of consolation that I ain’t that bad a mum if she doesn’t want to eat meat. Anyway, dinner tonight was quite funny :

Daddy : Clever girl! Finish your corn and then we’ll have a bath…
Arianna : Bath bath, bath bath!
Daddy : Yea, finish up and then we’ll go.
*While I was washing up, he comes and whispers to me asking if we should give her a piece of chocolate, which was fine by me. So after she was done with the corn cob, he handed her a piece of choc.*
Daddy : Here you go, Cheeky…
Arianna : Oooo…choc! *grins cheekily but doesn’t eat it at all but just holds it with her fingers for a good 5 minutes without even tasting it*
Daddy : Eat you chocolate so we can go have your bath!
Arianna : OK!!

And she did…and once she was done, she concluded with a ‘Habis’. :) And was taken away to have her bath.

Ps. I do believe that this child likes bitter stuff – dark choc and I’m talking the higher intensity dark choc that even I can’t eat, marmalade which is also something I don’t like and [sinfully and not my fault at all but daddy tends to let her have the last tiny sip from his mug every now n then] coffee. Is this normal??

More traffic please?

I think that needless to say, many bloggers out there are blogging for the sake of making money which in my honest opinion is fine. After all, it is a source of income and if you can make money while doing something you like…life can’t really get any better right?

There are many ways out there to earn an income using your blog. Other than making your blog unique, one needs to generate traffic so that it is attractive to advertisers AND your page rank will go up. But getting traffic is sometimes not easy unless perhaps you get a SEO consultant to help you but why pay them when you can join a free web directory and get what you want for free…you need to spend money at all. Good right? ;)

Rolling over already??

By the end of this month, KR will have turn 4 months. I scarce to think where the time has flown. I say this so many times that perhaps I should get it recorded and then just play it back whenever I think it. Heck, I think I will also permanently CNP it as well! ;)

About 2 weeks ago [when I should have blogged about it but didn't], I put KR on her baby gym on the floor like I usually do and went about doing my own things. Come to think of it, I should have been doing something that could help me lose belly fat instead of just mooching around the house! After all, that is one of the main problem areas if you want to lose fat but what did I end up doing? Well, I left her on the floor and went to sew instead. Hehehe…yes, I abandoned her for a bit and she was in plain sight so she knew that I was just nearby and that I didn’t really just dump her there.

So off she went, chattering and gurgling away like the happy baby she is and then I heard this straining noise coming from her and lo, behold….someone was on her side, head tilted back and trying to turn over!!!! My heart skipped a beat coz I did not expect that at all. Arianna only turned at 6 months and at that point, KR was just 3 mths!! What’s happening???

Apparently, its quite a norm for babies to turn over at that age so I’m the one who is not in touch with this whole turning thing. In any case, I am impresses but at the same time, turning over faster only means that she is growing up faster as well. It is also the norm for second children to pick up things faster and seeing that KR is SUCH a chatter box, I can foresee her babbling away a lot earlier too. Aiyo, one chatterbox not enough….soon there will be 2! *lol* But you gotta admit though that kids chattering away is really something really nice to listen to although for most of the part, I can’t understand a single thing Arianna says! *lol*

Blessed in more ways than 1

I don’t consider myself lucky when I hear how other mothers [mostly friends and relatives] tell me about their first time mom experiences and how they were not coping very well with the new baby because I never really had any problems at all. I count myself very blessed and touched by God’s graces that I didn’t have to suffer postnatal depression or baby blues as some might call it, and I also didn’t have any major issues with breastfeeding either.

When I hear about people expressing how tough it was coping, I can only lend an ear and a shoulder to cry on because I can’t really share my experience or say, ‘I know what you’re going through’, because I never did have to go through all that ‘suffering’. I still remember it so clearly, while I was still in hospital. We were asked to come into the the nursery at least once a day to get the baby checked and temperature monitored and everytime I was there, there was this one day who would be there feeding her baby boy.

I used to think that big boobs = lotsa of milk hence it would be easy to feed the baby but this incident proved me wrong. This lady had really huge boobs and her milk had already come in but somehow her baby wasn’t latching on properly and she was suffering from all sorts of pain from the engorging breasts [milk would literally be dripping down and she would have a towel to soak it up - poor thing!], to sore nipples from having trouble latching on to the most obvious, after birth pains of course. My heart really went out to her but there was nothing anyone could do accept encourage to persevere and I can tell you that she is one very relentless person though. Despite all this, she refused to pump and bottle feed her baby with breast milk.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion but in my honest one, she should have just pumped and given it to the baby. Why make both parties suffer like that, right? Anyway, it was definitely trying times for her and I hope that she has pulled through. When I think back, I can’t think of a time where I felt like giving up, perhaps for a fleeting moment when I couldn’t get Arianna to latch on but once I knew how, everything was great. I really, honestly, had no troubles at all.

So although I may not be blessed with material riches, or a fancy Ferrari, let alone Ferrari parts, I have been blessed in more ways than I can imagine and truthfully, that is what is most important. :)