Monthly Archives: September 2009

I think I’m falling apart

Geez, my back is killing me!!! At first I thought that it was just a passing thing and that things would get better but apparently, this is not the case.

Actually, I notice this while preggers with KR. But at the time I thought that it was merely part and parcel of being preggers what with the additional weight. But now that KR will soon turn 6 mths at the end of October, I don’t think it’s due to additional weight. Did I mention that I think I’ve lost WEIGHT?? :D Anyways, I noticed that these days I can’t sleep in late even if I wanted to. Not only because the kids are up early but on days that they sleep in, I can’t. I am up by ‘force’ at 7.30am. My internal clock wakes me up and what unables me to fall back to sleep is my blardy back.

It aches so bad sometimes I have trouble getting out of bed. But it doesn’t last long. Just 1/2 hour or so and I’m ok. So I’m think that it’s the bed la. More so, my side of the bed since I’ve slept twice on Ted’s side and although the pain isn’t totally gone, it’s a whole lot better. Stupid back….I’m also going to blame child bearing for this problem.

I mean, before kids, I was as fit as a fiddle. I could dance the whole night away at the club – literally! But now, omg….just a bit of wiggling to The Wiggles and I’m huffing and puffing. I know that age may [lying to myself here] be a factor why I’m achy here and there, but I think we shouldn’t dwell on such topics. Here’s a look at my history with the aches…After Arianna, I never really got back to pre-preggers weight but I was never overweight. I was however more healthy BUT pudgy. Due to breastfeeding, I had done my left wrist in, I think and despite bandaging it up and all that, it still hurts till today and sad to say, I can’t rest my weight on my wrist. Eg. I can’t do push up anymore or do the Sleeping Buddha with my left wrist. After KR was born, on top of hurting my wrist more, my knees now ‘sing’. I got a major shock one day when I was walking up the stairs when I heard this creaking sound. At first I thought it was my old slippers and never gave it another thought until I was wearing shoes another day and the same sound came on. When I took a closer listen, I realised that it was my freaking right knee!!! And now that I’m so sensitive to it, I can actually feel the grinding when I walk up the stairs…scary right?? :/ It doesn’t hurt at all but the sound, haiyola!! On top of the wrist AND knee….now the back is also giving problem. My goodness, I feel like an old woman telling you all these aches and pains. I didn’t expect all these pains to some so early in my life!

I tell you, by the time we are done with kids, I will be in pieces!! +_+

iPhone

i don’t have.

I wonder if I’m like some sort of a misfit since I don’t own an iPhone. Everyone I know seems to be going nuts about owning one and if they are planning to get one, my FB just goes nuts and I don’t really have to talk about Twitter, do I? It just goes into maximum overload…it’s ridiculous!

I think with anything fancy like these iPhone, I bet the iphone accessories would be even worst since the choice is just crazy insane. I think I should be more human and sympathise with those who are so into the iPhone. And, also be thankful that I am not!

I’m not on diet!

I’m so glad that I can actually say this and mean it! :D Yes, it’s true that I’ve lost some weight but I’m not on any diets or appetite suppressants. Although I have tried them a long time ago, I still prefer the old fashion way of working out and getting that sweat dripping down. ;)

Needless to say that I was over the moon when a friend commented on FB that I had lost weight and asks if I was on a diet. Like I mentioned earlier, I’m not on any diet and the only reason why I have lost weight is purely because I am breastfeeding KR exclusively. The only time that girl has had a bottle was when we were at the clinic getting her jabs. That once was during her 6 weeks jab and at her 3 mths check up, she just plain refused it even though she was upset. Go figure…but I’m glad that I am losing weight with minimal effort. Hahaha….I still eat the same and although I don’t exercise [at all - so shameful!!], I’m glad I’m losing the pounds. I hope to not gain but maintain this weight coz as long as I can fit into my pre-pregnancy jeans, I’m very happy! :D

Mommy’s birthday!

:) The day is almost over but heck, I still have about 1/2 hour left of the day. I spent the day doing nothing much. It was an overall good day. It was just like any other day really. I personally think that as the years go by, birthdays to me are becoming less and less important. There are many ways of looking at it, both positive and negative of course.

With each birthday celebrated, to me means that I have been given the privilege of another year to share and experience life as a mother and wife. Every day is a gift that is priceless and once it’s gone, it’s gone forever. Sounds so cliche and so not me but we all know thats the truth. Anyways, enough of all the mushy-mushy…. long story short, I didn’t have any celebration per se but had a little cake cutting thingy at MIL and Thai takeaway tonight. ;) We had planned to go out for dinner but the weather turned really bad so we just had takeaway instead. All in all, I liked it!

31st birthday

CAKE!!
Going back a couple of years, this wasn’t really what I had expected to see. But you know what…I’m glad I have these 2 gorgeous girls today. :) They are the best gifts EVER!!

So fast leh!

I was maent to post this up quite some time ago as it was a major milestone for KR but I guess better late than never la. ;) Here’s a vid of KR turning over for the first time. :D

She has been trying so hard for a long time now and finally she did it!! I’m so glad I had my cam out at the right time n got it on vid. :D The historic date is 26/8/2009. Now member is an expert turning over to the left. She is currently trying to turn to the right but hasn’t quite managed to turn back when she is on her front. Sometimes she tries SO hard till she literally splutters! *lol* Poor little thing…but I’m happy to see that she is trying and turning over just 2 days shy of 4 mth is amazing by our standard seeing that Arianna turned over around 8 mths! :P So good on ya, KR…you need all the survival skills you can learn up to defend yourself from Arianna.

My bull strength

I think many people wouldn’t believe me if I told them that Arianna has some serious bull strength in her. I don’t know where it comes from but if that girl digs her elbows into something that she wants out, you can bet your last dime that it will definitely come out, or move. It surprised me how strong she was when she carried this wagon thingy she has. It is full to the brim with books and is made of wood. I personally feel the weight when I lift it up so how thing little girl can do it is beyond me.

Anyway, like mummy like daughter….I did some damage to the ceramic tiles in the kitchen. And all this no thanks to me not reading the instructions on the spray cleaner that I was using this morning. *sigh* Now my tiles are discolored and so ugly!!! :( Don’t know when we can get them replaced of if we ever can since the design is kind of vintage and I don’t think they make this design anymore. *sigh sigh*

I think lawyers have it good

Although most people don’t think much of lawyers, I think they have one of the best money making professions around!! I don’t know how things are done in Malaysia but here, they charge by the hour and gosh, they really charge for EVERYTHING!!

Poor friend of mine was telling me how she would get invoices every now and then. Each phone call or conversation with her lawyers cost down to the last minute. Photocopy something and they charge you an arm and a leg. I know that at the end of the day, if you win, then that’s all that matters. I wonder if all lawyers are like this…you know, perhaps else where things are different…say New York accident lawyers perhaps?

Who knows eh? I just hope she resolves this soon or she is going to be in some serious financial troubles!

*Gasp*

If you had read about my recent grievances, then you’ll know why this video means the world to me! :)

After more than 2 years of waiting, Arianna FINALLY said, ‘Mommy’. How it revolved from morning to money and finally mommy all in one morning, I don’t really care coz in the end, the most important word of them ALL was MOMMY. :D I cannot express how happy I was that day….it’s a day that I won’t be forgetting too soon.


Mommy @ 140909

Funny enough, that was the day that she continuously called me and it was as if she was making up for all the lost time that she missed out on calling me. I think Ted was a little jealous! *lol* But that said, she hasn’t REALLY been calling me since then and you know what, I don’t really mind coz I’ve just gotten so used to it. But I must say that everytime she DOES call me, I feel so nice and warm inside. :D

When natural remedies are the best!

Needless to say that with the economy going the way it is, I can definitely kiss all my facials good bye. Although I am no beauty regime junkie, I do try my best to keep my facial regime as best I can. Honestly, I haven’t been to a facial appointment for as long as I can remember.

Being someone who had acne for most of her teenage years, one mustn’t be surprise to note that such ‘scarred’ kids are always on the look out on ways they can get rid of their acne. If some one offered me some sort of acne treatment, even though it was a natural acne treatment, I’d have gladly agreed to try it out. This was simply because both sis and I have tried almost everything under the sun to get rid of the acne. For me, I’m glad that it’s gone due to age and having kids but I pity my sister who is still suffering. Perhaps she should think about that natural treatment again.

When Facebook updates me

Ever since I signed up with Facebook [FB], it’s amazing at the number of friends I’ve since hooked up with again. Most of them are mainly from my childhood days and omg, it’s just amazing seeing all those people again. What wonderful memories they bring back! ;) Although I know there are also really bad memories but I think in general, the good ones definitely rule.

Of course with rekindled friendships, there is bound to be questions of either, ‘You’ve lost weight!’ or the more normal and usual question, ‘You look prosperous!’. :P I get that alot and it’s not as if I am on the best diet pills ever. I’ve heard about those pills and although I have tried them once myself, I thinik I prefer the good ol’ fashion way of staying healthy but hhmm…maybe I do need a more effective method. ;)