All this time, I’ve never really had a problem with Arianna’s eating habits. She ate what I gave her and well, all seems fine until about a week ago. I’m totally blaming this on her age as she approaches the terrible 2′s. *shudders* and the fact that she is sprouting approximately 6 teeth at the same time. Poor thing must feel rotten for most of the day and sometimes, it really does show. I guess that is the other thing that might be affected – her appetite.
Been about a month or more since she’s been having rice and pretty much what we eat. I still chop up the vegs and meat finely although the rice I leave whole and she’s quite happy with that. And funnily, she enjoys vegs more than meat, and tends to pick out the meat no matter how minute the piece is but will eat veggies. So I hope I am not jinxing it but say this out loud. *touch wood, touch wood*
Sadly, this is not so anymore. Not only does she not eat meat and vegs, she is not eating much at ALL. In fact, her brekkie is a mess. It’ll be good if I can get her to finish her yogurt. And if she takes toast, that’s like striking the lottery for me! Lunch time is another war zone. I made tuna cutlets hoping that the major change in texture would entice to eat but I had to practically coax/force her to eat it. I know this is not good but after a few mouths, she must have realised that it wasn’t that bad and had it. She only had 3 but I’m just glad she got something down. Dinner was the WORST. When I cook, I cook for 2 meals so there was some more cutlets left for her and she totally refused this time. So I gave in tried scramble eggs which is never a miss and she still refused. I didn’t give up and this time, tried toast, also another fav and STILL no go. I was so upset coz even fruits did go down well with her. In the end, I gave up and gave her some jar fruit yogurt. She was happy with that and also some pizza from my plate. Amazing how kids prefer whats not in their own plate.
The previous day, all she had was cake for lunch.
( See la, how can I not get worried?? I try not to take it too seriously coz I know that she is still taking her bottle of milk so that kinds of comforts me. But I can’t totally depend on that right? I so dread meal times and I hate the fact that it starts with brekkie….
I know that one should persist and not give up if a child doesn’t like something but there is a limit and I am sick and tired of people telling me to persist!
Not only that, I feel frustrated and disappointed that she won’t eat what I have prepared because of the effort put in. I know I can’t blame her coz she doesn’t know what is going on, but I can’t help the way I feel. Sometimes when she won’t eat, and I end up giving her can/jar foods, I feel guilty and bad, that a good mother wouldn’t be doing this but I am. On the other hand, I know that as long as there is food in the house, she won’t starve but the problem is, it looks as if this child doesn’t need food to live at all.
She’s active around the house so much so that I can’t keep up with her. Needless to say, I’m totally knackered everytime we go to MIL’s coz she’s like the Duracell Battery Rabbit – always on the go, never stopping for nothing at all. I get tired from just watching her. So with all this energy being used, you’d think that she’d eat her meals with passion. But she prefers her milk and water instead, o and fruits too.
One confession that I have to admit though, I do kind of give her less brekkie and small snacks in between so that she is hungry by lunch time. To me, it is a little bit cruel and maybe ‘abuse’ in a certain form but I feel that sometimes it works. These days, it doesn’t anymore and I’m just wondering if I have moulded a girl into thinking that brekkie is not important!!! It so freaked me out, I’m shaken at the thought.
While most toddlers are self feeding, I am still spoon feeding Arianna although sometimes, I let her feed herself. But with the pregnancy almost at the end, I’m just not up to cleaning after her, after meals. Apparently I have done wrong to start spoon feeding her and instead, I should have stuck to BLS [baby led solids]. This was the one thing I never did with Arianna. I hardly ever let her get messy which is why I hardly ever use a bib because I try not to get her dirty.
Perhaps this is all my fault for taking away her independance, which now makes me feel bad coz I’d love to have her sit at the table and have our meals together. But it ain’t happening just yet.
I’ve kind of decided that with Pacman, we will definitely try this BLS and hope for the best. *sigh*
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