One of those things that Ted and I have planned for our later years, once the kids have grown up and all, is to take a cruise. I don’t really care where the destination is but to say that I’ve been on a cruise would be something that I could tick off my to-do list.
I know many will say that cruises don’t come cheap and I agree, but you have to know where to look for the best prices!!
Monthly Archives: February 2009
Sailing the 7 seas…
32 weeks and aching

Pix and info from BabyCentre
Aahh….32 weeks and not many more to go. Actually, we are at abt 32.5 weeks at the moment coz I didn’t have the time to update on what’s been happening. *lol* Find myself rather engrossed with the sewing that even playing Wordscraper has kind of taken a backseat as well!! I tell you, it’s true when people say that once you start sewing, you can’t stop!! For me, it’s the case of once I start the pattern on paper and get cutting, that’s it. I’ll be like in a mad rush to complete the piece. Just this insane need within to complete it just coz I am excited to the end project – madness I tell you! Sometimes, I find myself forgetting to eat too….*lol* Got a good scolding from Mum for that. So I make sure that I take my meals before starting any sewing.
What’s with Pacman this week? Lots more moving that’s for sure and sometimes, I get these sharp pains that feels as if she’s digging her heels into me BUT the feeling is on the OUTSIDE of my belly. How bizarre is that?? This is what BabyCentre says :
Your baby now weighs approximately 3.75 pounds/ 1.7 kilograms and is about 17 inches/ 42 centimetres long from head to toe. Although his lungs won’t be fully developed until just before birth, your little one is inhaling amniotic fluid to exercise his lungs and practise breathing.
Some babies have a head of hair already, others have only a few wisps. Thick hair at birth doesn’t necessarily mean thick hair later on but children with fine hair in childhood usually have thinner hair in adulthood. [Pacman, you BETTER have a head of hair when you come out - Mummy ain't suffering all this heartburn for nothing, ok???]
What about you, Mum? As for me, I’m beginning to feel really bloated. I didn’t feel like a beached whale this early with Arianna so it must be the fact this is #2 that I feel bigger, faster. I think Kara is the same as well. At least I know I am not alone!! Don’t know if I mentioned this the last update but have been having particular pain in the joint where the hips meet the thigh bone. I find it rather irritating especially in the mornings coz it makes me slow and feels so rusty! Also, walking long distance is also a slight problem too. My left foot tend to hurt when I take walks which makes me avoid it when in actual fact, I want to get as much exercise as I can.
I remember how I used to get up every night without fail coz I needed to pee, but not this time around. Although I still do get up, it’s not every night. I’m glad that even at this point, I am still able to get a good night’s sleep. *touch wood* I think it’s most likely because I don’t really take any naps during the day although some days, I can hardly keep my eyes open. Like today, I was really sleepy but if I did take a snooze, I wouldn’t be able to sleep tonight but since I couldn’t keep my eyes open, I took a 45min nap which did me wonders.
The latest prep that I have done was to get my hospital bag packed. This was my last list :
Labour bag :
* Birth plan and some reference books including a consent form for emergency C-sect if necessary. – Not yet
* My ante-natal card – Dont think I have one so will check with Doc next week.
* Ted’s and my bathers if I need to get in the bath and he needs to massage me while I’m IN the bath – No need la, didn’t even use it the last time.
* My fluffy slippers – Not yet, need to get a new pair.
* My wheat pack for those long and painful backaches which I anticipate. – Jeez, I forgot about this one!!! This was my life saver last time and it will be again. Will have to buy my own Swiss ball as well since I can’t depend on the hospital as they only have ONE. Can you believe it??? And I really depend on this a lot for labour management.
* Socks – Not yet
* Rotten T-shirt to give birth in – No need coz hospital will give me the gown
* Ted’s change of clothes – Not yet
* Lip balm – Not yet but don’t think I will need it
* Towel – No need but will bring anyway
* Energy bars and snacks for those in between moments – I didn’t need it the last time but would bring it along just in case or if I get the munchies while I’m still in hospital
* Stress balls – Got one but Arianna has been ‘chewing’ on it! *lol*
* CDs for relaxation – Don’t think I need it, I found any form of sound really irritating and distracting.
* Toiletries – Too early
Hospital Bag
* Bunny rugs / wraps for Kecik – Not yet, need to wash first.
* Towel for bub and me – No need
* Pampers for bub – Will bring a few but I think no need as hospital will provide plus I intend to make FULL use of whatever they give me!
* Maternity Pads for me – Done and as mentioned, will use hospital ones first.
* Nursing pads – Done but don’t know if I’d be leaking that soon or not.
* My daily clothes – Done. Took mostly track dacks and PJs coz I hate wearing nighties. And a couples of loose T-shirts.
* Going home clothes for us – Done! It will be the same as the going home outfit we all wore the last time, if you can remember. ![]()
* Toiletries – Not yet coz I’m still using some of the stuff at home.
* My fluffy dressing gown – No need, didn’t use it at all the last time.
* Maternity bras – Not yet coz I am actually wearing some of them now. So comfy what! ![]()
* Panties – Not yet.
Other than that, I still haven’t washed Pacman’s things yet. Have been putting it off for sometime now but I really should get cracking. We will be going for my 33 weeks check up next week and might bring up my birth plan although I have already casually mentioned it the last time. I’m not too overly concern this time around because the thing that I am most concern about is the labour management and would want to go as drug-free as possible for as long as I can. I’m definitely sticking to my happy gas for now and as for the episiotomy, I don’t really care about it. I’d say ok if I need it but would like to avoid if possible.
Each checkup, doc always ask me if I had anything that I wanted to ask and I felt kind of bad that I had nothing to ask. As if I wasn’t worried or anything like that but in actual fact, I really had nothing to ask and nothing was concerning me until now. I actually have about 4 questions to ask him!
1. If I need an episiotomy, will it be done on the opposite side of the previous one?
2. Seeing that I was induced the last time, the labour was more agressive and fast, and lasted about 6 hrs before I was pushing – how will it be like now if it was a non-induced [sp?] labour.
3. Does the perineal massage really work and can I start it now?
4. When should I start taking my raspberry leaf pills?
See, so many questions!
Well, this is a long enough post for now. Back to sewing!!!
And the journey begins
I can officially say that my journey into sewing land has begun. Let me add that I thought it would have been so embarassing if I had called up my the service centre and complain that my brand new machine wasn’t working!! So what happened? Well, the moment we got back from Spotlight, this really huge fabric and craft place just 10 minutes away [YAYNESS!!], I started straight away! Of course, I made sure Arianna was asleep for the afternoon before I started meddling with the machine.
I knew how to thread the needle, spin a bobbin and use the dials, and that was good enough for me. So I thought I was all go. I had already cut up the fabric to sew Arianna a pair of long pants coz I washed all the fabric which I just bought because that’s what most people seem to do, or so I think anyway. And while waiting for the load, I got ready to sew and the needle just kept jumping and jumping!! I was crossed and upset as I was so geared up but wasn’t going to give in that easily. So I re-threaded it, changed the bobbin and did almost everything I could think of when SUDDENLY, as I looked up, I noticed that I had not threaded it the RIGHT way! Aiyooo……how stupid is that?? I missed threading through one bit and once that was fixed, I was good to go and tadaa….

Would have finished this is in about 1 hr if I had managed to fix my machine. Planning to do up a matching top as well but have no idea about the pattern yet….will have to draw up something, any ideas if I should have a buttoned top or a pull over?? This is cotton so I might have to stick with the buttoned top…
And I’m sure Aida of all people is waiting to see the damage but I have to warn you before hand that it’s not that fantastic la. But to me, I thought it was a big deal!!

Damage 1 – my first ever ‘stash’ of material. *lol* To be honest, I went totally blank, as normal when I first stepped in. I didn’t know what I wanted to sew or what I was looking for. Mostly, I was going for the stuff that was on sale so the most expensive material here, from memory is AU6/m. Others were between AU2 – AU5. I bought more flannelette becoz autumn is coming up and it may get chilly so am planning more PJs for Arianna and Pacman. Planning on sewing some newborn gowns for Pacman.

My so-called start up sewing kit.
Just some knick knacks to get me started. I wouldn’t say that they were expensive but almost AU1:RM1 for some of the things. But Mum will be hauling over more knick knacks for me when she comes. [Aida, are those the snap fasterners u were looking for? If so, I can send u some...Mum will be bringing me a whole load!]
Will have to get a plastic container that comes with a cover to store these things or else, some sticky fingers will find their way into this box, I’m sure!! O, and I am super happy with my machine because it is so Q U I E T. And it didn’t bother Arianna one bit either. I was finishing up her pants while she watched TV and although she must have been wondering what I was doing, she wasn’t bothered by it at all and another consolation is that, I can even sew in the middle of the night coz after Ted came home from work last night at about 11.30pm or so, I ran the machine for him to see if it was quiet enough and he was so surprised too!
So, yes….I is very teh happy!!
My new fav hangout – SPOTLIGHT!! But can’t go so often la or we’ll be bankcrupt!! *lol* Can’t wait to take my Mum there, I know she will go nuts, absolutely nuts!!
Sun, sea and surf?
My aunt who lives in Sweden is always complaining about the cold weather. Being bred and born in Malaysia, she really misses the warmth and I guess I can understand it pretty well. She actually cycles to work in like 3 layers of clothes, not including those thick warm clothes so you can imagine how cold it is over there!
Recently that she mentioned about wanting a long holiday by the beach and I thought that perhaps I should tell her about Outer Banks. With so many properties for rental by the beach, she’ll have a hard time choosing one! I wonder if she’ll ever want to leave once her holidays are over.
Made some comics….
Ted’s really good at making comics with Arianna as the star. When he had more time on his hands, he was busy with Kecik! but with all the extra shifts he has been taking on, he hasn’t quite got back his groove. So I decided to try my hand at it and although I suck by his standards, I think I’m ok.


Pacman @ 31 weeks

Pix and info from Baby Centre
Don’t know if you noticed or not, but I’ve kind of got into the routine of posting about Pacman’s development towards the end of this pregnancy. I guess subconsciously I’ve always felt that I have neglected her in certain aspects. Hence, keeping a little journal of her growth makes me feel a little better about things.
Also, I have this reminder in my email box that keeps me updated on how things are progessing so it’s hard not to want to post things about Pacman.
So, what’s been happening with Pacman? According to the site, she should be moving less since there is less space in there for her to move about but I think because she is on the smaller side [no complaints there!] or maybe the gestation calculation is wrong, she is still having a fun time in there. She kicks about during the day and night but not when I’m asleep. It’s either that, or I have no feelings of it as I’m pretty much dead to the world when I’m in ZZZZZZZZZzz-land.
I guess she must have done something quite extreme that I ended up with a bruise under my belly and didn’t realise it until it was fading away! I actually got a shock to see it but it didn’t hurt when I touch it and like a blue-black mark, it faded off into yellow and the just disappeared.
What’s happening with me? Well, the heartburn has definitely gone up a notch and it’s not funny anymore. Like Arianna, I would get it throughout the day but at night it would subside. But not with Pacman. With her, the heartburn seems to come at night when I’m trying to fall asleep and you have this irritating burning sensation down your throat! :/ How to sleep la? So I have to switch on my ‘I’m gonna ignore you, you damn heartburn’ mode and try to get some shut eye. Most of the time it works but sometimes, I just end up tossing and turning. Another problem I realised that I’ve also been having is joint pains near the pelvic area. Mostly on my left leg – where the thigh bone joins up to the hip bone. It’s at its worst in the mornings that I normally walk with a limp. I’m thinking its coz most of the time I sleep on my left side hence, my whole weight is on that side. I can’t think of any other reason.
On a happier note, I got my machine yesterday!!! But haven’t figured out how to get started yet. Lol Still need some this and that to really get going…can’t wait!!
Mummy’s brave little girl!
Today, we had an early doctor’s appointment for Arianna – it was the dreaded VACCINATION day again. Ugghh….I think both Ted and I were more anxious than she was since she had no idea what was going to happen. It was a really early appointment ie. 8.45am so we were up by 7.30am which is relatively early for me as well as for Arianna since she normally is ‘out of bed’ at about 8 – 8.30am.
Anyway, when we got there, I did mention some concerns like how her eyes tend to ‘weep’ as well as some slight baby ezcema. Thankfully both were nothing too serious to be worried about. Then it came for THE jab.
This time it was me holding her and I really didn’t know what to expect. The last time she was screaming but for awhile so we kind of expected some screaming as well. But you know what? Not only was there NO sound from her, she didn’t even WINCE!!! Ted and I were both shocked and extremely pleased that she handled it SO well. I’m still trying to accept it! *lol* It was simply great.
In fact, I also mentioned at the doctor’s room how Arianna was so ready to get a tattoo with me. *LOL* Such a good and brave girl!!!
Growth stats :
Height – 82cm
Weight – 12.06kgs
*Both at 75% which is normal…YAY!*
After that, we visited MIL and then went to get some things from the supermarket and decided to let Arianna try the merry-go-round for the first time. I’m glad I brought my cam with me this time. It just happen to be in my bag.
Needless to say when it was all over, someone was not happy at all and started throwing a tantrum and crying of course. But as usual, it didn’t last long. Phew! Her next vaccinations will be when she is 4 yrs old but….the next time we come in will be when Pacman gets her 2mth jabs. Ugghh….the first time is always the worst especially when they are so super tiny and fragile.
My bear-y little girl
It’s been ages since I last put up pictures of Arianna and it just occurred to me today! *lol* I hardly take any pix these days because she can’t see the camera. If she does, she starts grabbing at it and hence, I don’t really get to take any pix at all. I thought that she would be used to us taking snaps of her coz I started when she was a newborn and my FIL takes quite a number too but nup, she is still intrigued by it.
Anyway, recently, she has developed this craze for bears. It started out in Kulim where she took a liking to a Santa Bear I had sent in a parcel to my Mum for Christmas, just to pack up the box and ensure that things don’t roll around in there and who knew, she stuck to it like glue! It became her bedtime toy.
After we got home, all the bears we had at home got pulled off the shelf and are now in her cot. The funniest thing is the first thing she says when I go to her room in the morning to get her is, ‘BEAR!’. And mind you, this girl literally shouts it out while pointing to all the bears she’d thrown out onto the floor. *shakes head* Sometimes I think it’s a miracle that she can entertain herself without any toys while lying in bed. But good on her! At least Mummy can get a few more minutes in bed.

From this you can see how attached she is to her bears. Her Santa Bear is not in the pix coz it’s still in her cot. I think he’s been replaced by that small brown bear [Tiny Bear]. She really changes her fav toys very often.
Little Ms. Tanty
A tanty means a tantrum and that is what has been my issue for the past couple of days. I knew this one would one day and how I wished that it didn’t have to be so soon. Arianna’s tantrums seems to last a long time and she spends it just crying inconsolably on the floor, rolling from one side to another, as if we had bashed the crap out of her. *Don’t mind my language* If she does it too often, I am sure the neighbours will call us in as child abusers!
It started a few days ago when she was upset that I switched off the DVD she was watching after it ended. It was afterall time for bed and omg, she just flipped. It was the first time she did it and it really took me by surprise. Normally I would just leave her to deal with it but she didn’t stop. It must have been bad coz it woke Ted up from his nap – he wasn’t feeling too good. And even he couldn’t stop her from crying until I could’nt take it so I picked her up and tried to distract her with this lighted up statue of Jesus. It managed to distract her and she stopped.
It’s really amazing to see the instant transformation from such a cranky-tanty child into this angelic giggling one. Totally unbelievable! And to think that I thought she was in pain….*rolls eyes* Goes to show that she didn’t do this much in the past. And once she had calmed down, we tucked her in but she didn’t go down without a fuss of course. She did cry a fair bit but soon stopped coz I knew it was past her bedtime and she was tired.
Today, it was almost the same but not as bad and it happened during her aftenoon nap. I’m not sure what is causing this change in her but man, I hope it’s just a temporary change in character and not here to stay. I don’t think I can handle a child who throws tantrums like how Arianna does. It really is not a pretty sight at all and it’s one of those things I had hoped that I didn’t need to deal with after watching other parents.




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